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What Schools Don’t Teach: Life Skills That Prevent Street Cultism

January 24, 20253 min read

Street cultism in Nigeria is not just a moral issue — it’s a societal emergency.
Year after year, thousands of young people slip into destructive groups not because they are inherently bad, but because they lack the life skills needed to navigate pressure, identity conflicts, and survival challenges.

The truth?
Schools teach subjects — but not the life skills that prevent youth from falling into cultism.

In this article, we break down the crucial skills missing in most classrooms — and how teaching them can protect an entire generation.


1. Emotional Intelligence (EQ): The First Missing Layer

Most students know mathematics, but don’t know how to manage:

  • peer pressure

  • anger

  • jealousy

  • rejection

  • identity crisis

Cult groups exploit this vulnerability.
A teen who cannot regulate emotions is easy to manipulate.

Why EQ prevents cultism

When young people understand their emotions, they’re less likely to:
✔ follow harmful peers
✔ seek belonging in dangerous groups
✔ react violently
✔ use drugs to escape pain

Teaching EQ = reducing the emotional vacuum that cultism feeds on.


2. Conflict Resolution & Peace Skills

Many youths join cult groups for “protection” because they can’t resolve conflicts peacefully.

Schools rarely teach:

  • how to de-escalate fights

  • how to manage misunderstandings

  • how to walk away from unhealthy environments

  • how to use dialogue instead of aggression

Why it matters

A youth who knows how to settle disputes without violence doesn’t need a gang to fight battles.


3. Self-Worth & Identity Building

Cultism thrives where self-worth is low.
Many teens join groups to feel:

  • powerful

  • respected

  • seen

  • protected

  • validated

Schools don’t teach identity formation, yet identity confusion is a major trigger for cult recruitment.

What strong identity does

A confident youth with clear values becomes unrecruitable.


4. Financial Literacy & Survival Skills

Poverty-related desperation drives many into cultism and illicit activities.

But schools rarely teach:

  • how to make money legitimately

  • how to start small businesses

  • freelancing or digital careers

  • saving, budgeting, investing

  • online income pathways

Why it matters

Give a youth real options, and they will decline destructive ones.


5. Digital Skills for Safe Online Choices

Cult groups now recruit online.
Drugs are sold online.
Fraud groups lure online.
Peer pressure spreads online.

But schools still teach like it’s 1980.

Youths need digital life skills like:

  • online safety

  • cyberbullying prevention

  • avoiding fraud networks

  • using tech for income

  • privacy and mental wellness online

Digital literacy is now a protective skill.


6. Decision-Making & Critical Thinking

A major reason youths join cults is poor decision-making under pressure.

Schools teach theory, not how to:

  • analyze consequences

  • resist negative influences

  • make long-term decisions

  • choose safe environments

  • differentiate between loyalty and foolishness

Why it matters

Critical thinkers don’t fall for manipulation or false promises.


7. Relationship & Social Skills

Many young people join cults because:

  • they feel lonely

  • they lack friendships

  • they seek acceptance

  • they want connection

Teaching healthy social interaction helps them find belonging without danger.


8. Life Values: Integrity, Purpose & Accountability

Schools rarely teach values that shape character, yet values determine actions more than knowledge.

Youth need to learn:

  • integrity

  • empathy

  • accountability

  • responsibility

  • purpose-driven choices

These are the values that prevent dangerous lifestyles from becoming attractive.


The Hard Truth

Education without life skills is incomplete.
A student can have certificates but still fall into cultism because character was never taught.


The Way Forward: What Parents, Schools & Communities Must Do

✔ Integrate life skills education into school curriculum

Not as a one-time lecture — but as weekly, practical lessons.

✔ Create mentorship clubs in schools and communities

Mentorship gives youths a safe place to belong.

✔ Teach digital and financial skills early

A youth who can make money legitimately has no reason to join gangs.

✔ Build youth hubs where learning + purpose meet

Safe spaces reduce vulnerability drastically.

✔ Provide holistic support for at-risk youths

Including counseling, mentorship, scholarship pathways, and digital empowerment.


Street cultism is not a youth problem — it is a value and skills gap problem.
When we equip young people with the right life skills, we don’t just prevent crime;
we build confident, emotionally strong, purpose-driven leaders who choose the right path.


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